When Is the Right Time to Let My Child Use Social Media?

Your child is desperate to be on social media. He’s been pleading for months and you know it’s true that most of his friends are on Snapchat. It’s getting to the point where you recognise that you might be socially isolating him by saying no. That said, he’s impulsive and when he’s with his friends he can be silly. Your head says, “He’s not ready’, but your heart remembers what it felt like to be excluded at school. A variation of this scenario is played out by the parents of both girls and boys all around the world. So what do you do?

The key is not so much looking at social media. We need to look at our kids; their social and emotional development, their moral judgement, their impulse control but most importantly, their relationship with us.

Relationship is central

Relationship underpins any advice about social media. If your relationship with your child isn’t good, and your boundaries aren’t clear, then tend to that and deal with social media afterwards. Whatever problems exist in your relationship will be hugely magnified on social media.

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Linda Stade has worked in various teaching and management roles in education for twenty-seven years. She has worked in government and private schools, country and city, single-sex and co-ed. Currently, she is a writer and researcher at Wesley College, Western Australia.

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